The difference between a father and a mother.

No matter how a father claim to have put in effort in taking care of the child, the mother will still be the one with double effort than the father. Action speaks louder than words. Please do not say things like...a man does not know how to take care of a child and women role is to take care of the child since oldies days.

I stay home to take care of the children not because of your sake. Is because I wanted to ensure that they have the best care and are well taken care of. And i know none will give the best care to the child except the own mother.

For father, as long as there's someone who can physically look after the child, they'll just leave the child with the person. But does the person really take care of the child? There are so many things in mind when u leave the child with someone else. Is it time for milk? Is the milk temperature right? Is he drinking properly? Why is there so much milk left? Why is he not drinking? Why did he keep crying? Why does he have diaper rashes? His diaper is soiled for hours and still not changed? I'm pretty sure these questions won't cross the father's mind. And there's always a "I thought" reply from the father. But mother will always handle everything on their own. From feeding, cleaning, washing or anything you can think of as long as its regards to her own children, she'll do it. Yes, just for the sake of her children.

There's no such things as "no choice". Its either yes or no, can or cannot. Children only grow up once, when you miss their childhood, you'll missed it forever. From here, we can see how much of the effort you really put in, ya? You can say they dont know anything at such a young age now, but in fact, they know everything.